The Lovers is a card about balance and harmony. This might be a reflection of a relationship that you are in, but it also might be seeking or having harmony within yourself.
As you seek inner, spiritual learning you should be aware of a sense of balance within yourself that gets stronger as you grow and learn. If you do not sense this balance, back up a little and consider your path.
As you make decisions that affect your life, career and family be aware that making decisions that reflect a sense of 'right' will leave you feeling balanced. Decisions that are all tilted in one direction, always earning money, always doing for others, always doing for yourself, closing your mind to new things.... this lack of balance will be reflected in your life and feelings.
The balance of The Lovers can be a part of all areas of your life